Elder Wisdom by Kara
As I sit to write this reflection on Memorial Day, our national day of remembrance for the sacrifices of those who gave their lives in service to our nation, I find myself contemplating the profound weight of this day.
Memorial Day also falls just three days after May 24th, which marked two years since the tragedy at Robb Elementary in Uvalde, TX. This incident affected me deeply. I think I had held on to the hope that things would change, that we had somehow learned our lesson, that school shootings were a horrible history not to be repeated. I was wrong, and I was angry. I am still angry and my heart breaks. It breaks for the lost futures of the 19 children who were taken from this Earth far too soon. I’m broken for the loss of the two teachers who so desperately wanted to save their students but stood defenseless. I’m confused and angry about the many factors that play into this relentless loop of tragedy. It all leaves me asking why, God, why?
Our Bible readers group just finished reading the book of Lamentations, and I feel, for me, the timing is so perfect. Lamentations teaches us that expressing our grief is not a sign of weak faith but an act of profound trust. It is in our lamenting that we open our hearts to God’s presence, allowing His comfort to permeate our deepest wounds. Even in the midst of our suffering, we can find hope in His unwavering love and compassion.
Ann Weems, a poet deeply attuned to the human experience of lament, wrote, “Lament is a cry of belief in a God who has faithfulness…who will answer and rescue us.” I am deeply grateful for our God who hears our cries and allows us to lament. I leave you with one of Ann Weems’ poems, a reminder that we are not alone in our grief.
Jesus wept,
and in his weeping,
he joined himself forever
to those who mourn.
He stands now throughout all time,
this Jesus weeping,
with his arms about the weeping ones:
“Blessed are those who mourn,
for they shall be comforted.”
He stands with the mourners,
for his name is God-with-us.
Jesus wept.
